So here is a question for you. How many of you complain about the things you don’t want or don’t like? How many of you say things like “I don’t like my job” or “I don’t like my husband staying late at work all the time”? Do you know that when you dwell on what you don’t want or don’t like you will get more of it? What we are not realizing is that we develop mental images in our minds when we speak. The Universe sees those mental images and takes cues from them. The universe does not speak our language and does not understand “don’t”, “can’t”, and other negative words. We have to use positives to be correctly understood by the universe. If you say you don’t like your job then you must realize that the universe does not understand don’t and therefore hears “I like my job”. As you are saying you don’t like it you are developing a mental image of your day to day life at that job and it comes across as though these are the things you do like. We need to train ourselves to be grateful for what we do have and to speak in a manner that reflects what we do want. Instead of saying “I don’t like my job” Try saying “I want a better job”. Instead of “I don’t like all the hours I have to work” try “I want a job with less hours”. Instead of “I can’t stand my boss”, try ” I want a boss that is kind and considerate”. You must tell the universe what you do want instead of what you don’t want. And you have to make certain that you really want exactly what you are asking for. Keep the communication simple, and positive, yet precise and to the point. Be happy. You have something to be happy about. A happy and grateful attitude will get you a lot farther than a negative and ungrateful attitude will. Even if you don’t like your job be grateful for the good things about it, like maybe you make good money but you hate the work environment, well you should focus on the fact that you make good money and stop focusing on the negative work environment. Remember the negative work environment is what you don’t like because it is negative but if you focus on that then you are being negative as well and you are being no better than the other people causing the negativity. Smile a lot because it increases your positive vibrations that are picked up by the universe. Always smile and be grateful for the good in your life and ask for what you want. You also need to clear out space in your life for what you are asking for. I am not saying quit your old negative job to make space for a new and better one. You still have bills to pay and you may not get what you are asking for today but if you make room for it in your mind and focus on what you want and you are grateful for the good then you will receive it. Try it out on something smaller if you like. Maybe you have some clothes that are too big for you now, and you want to replace them with nice clothes that fit properly. Ask the universe for it, and give the old ones to goodwill or somewhere like it, Keep it simple. Don’t focus on the fact that the old clothes don’t look good on you anymore, be grateful for the use you got from them when they did fit and happily create a mental picture of you wearing your new well fitting clothes as you get rid of the old ones. Say “I want 2 new pairs of jeans size 4 and 2 new shirts size small. Thank you” now smile and imagine your new clothes while you pack up the ones you are giving away and be grateful for the use you got from the old ones. Believe that you are going to get the new ones and don’t worry about how you will get the new clothes you have requested. Let the universe take care of the how. You have done your part by simply asking for the new and clearing out the old to make room for what the universe is going to send your way. Maybe the universe will send them by way of a gift or maybe you will receive some extra money that affords you the ability to purchase the new clothes you desire. Just believe, be positive, be grateful, and be ready. And always always always smile and be happy.
Questions or comments welcome as always. Blessed Be sisters and brothers.